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The Finer Details

“I have grown to love secrecy. It seems to be the one thing that can make modern life mysterious or marvelous to us. The commonest thing is delightful if only one hides it.”
― Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray
  • What Are Your Stats?
    I am a petite and grabbable 5’2, with small, firm, natural breasts and a rather marvellous derrière. Dress Size: UK 8 - 10 / US 6 - 8 / Size Small Bra Size: 34 B (they're perky!) Shoe Size: UK 4 / EU 37 Other: I have no tattoos or daring piercings, just porcelain skin, untameable wavy auburn hair, a bewitching smile and a penchant for mischief.
  • Why Do You Hide Your Face?
    I am in a very fortunate position to be 'out' to my nearest and dearest, however, much of the world still looks unkindly upon my chosen profession. I, therefore, choose not to subject myself to that unkindness by being a face-in companion. This anonymity also makes international travel a little smoother and easier for me. I appreciate your understanding of this, though I'm sad I don't get to show off my Disney princess blue eyes, as I have frequently been told they're one of my best features. You'll just have to meet me to confirm for yourself...
  • What Do You Mean By ‘Girlfriend Experience’?
    I promise to be your secret girlfriend for whatever time we have together. By this, I mean deep, intimate companionship, minus the bickering and chores list. Laughter and romance. Dinner dates stuffed to the brim with flirtation and stimulating conversation. Hours spent rolling in crisp sheets, intoxicated by each other’s bodies and fantasies. Hand-holding. Kissing. Affectionate touch. Whispered sweet nothings and philosophical pillow talk as we lay entwined in one another’s arms. I pride myself on being open, honest, loving and giving, qualities I hope we will get to share in soon. I'll also wow you with my odd but endearing facts, like did you know that all pterodactyls are pterosaurs, but not all pterosaurs are pterodactyls? Now you do.
  • I’d Like To Get to Know You Better...May I?
    Well, who wouldn’t? This is all about knowing each other, after all. For a little more insight into my life, dreams and desires, I suggest heading to my Musings. I'm not as good at updating the little blog as I should be, but I do try. For a glimpse of my terrible sense of humour, I suggest following me on Twitter (or X as we are strangely supposed to call it now), and pretty pictures are over on Instagram. Then of course, if you really want to get to know each other, the absolute best way is to meet me in person - longer dates are perfect for this.
  • May I Buy You A Gift?
    Well, that would be incredibly lovely! Gifts are absolutely not expected but always very gratefully received. If you would like to bring something to our date I always adore flowers (especially tulips), rosé champagne, unusual succulents and candles. And I always greatly appreciate, thoughtful, personal gifts that have meaning to you - those are extra special! For more inspiration please see my Wishes page.
  • How Do I Book A Date With You?
    Well, you're best to RSVP here. First impressions are always important, and it would be lovely if you could include a little about yourself and your expectations for our date in your message to me. I really do love a plan, and while I don't expect a full itinerary, the more detail you give and the more thought out your note is the more excited to meet you I shall be. I do screen all my potential dates - a reference from another, well-established companion you have seen recently will do nicely, but please do ensure you have asked her permission first! If you are unable to provide a reference I will need either a form of personal identification or your LinkedIn profile/business website bio. These measures are simply for my safety and peace of mind. All your information will be kept private and secure, then destroyed after our meeting. Once we have both agreed to move forward with meeting each other (how wonderfully exciting!) I will require a non-refundable deposit* to secure your spot in my diary. Introductory Flirtations (90-minutes - 2-hours): £150 deposit Gourmet Delights (3-hours - 16-hours): 25% deposit Adventures (24-hours upwards & all travel dates): 50% deposit The remainder of my consideration will be due at the beginning of our date in cash - please use a non-descript envelope or a gift bag if we are out and about. Longer dates can be fully paid via bank transfer, please ensure you have paid in advance of our meeting to ensure funds clear with plenty of time. *In the highly unlikely instance that I myself have to cancel, your deposit will of course be returned to you within 48hours.
  • Outcall Or Incall?
    I Greatly Prefer outcalls to upscale hotels. I'm a sucker for hearing my heels click-clack through marble-floored lobbies and doormen in top hats. Hotels offer us sumptuous and romantic surroundings, security on both sides and the utmost discretion. Plus, if there's a particularly spectacular bathtub in the room you'll get to hear me gushing about how much I love baths. Scrap that, it doesn't even have to be spectacular. Just love a bath. Hint hint. I unfortunately no longer have a permanent incall space. I kindly request that you organise a location for us - I highly recommend Day Use for our get-togethers. I am, of course, more than happy to organise the location in order to host, but the fee for this will be in addition to my consideration and expected in advance of our meeting alongside my usual deposit.
  • Do You Have A List Of Services? Do You Offer Kink?
    This seems the perfect time to reiterate that I see myself as a girlfriend experience specialist. I have a naughty side which I do like to explore with long-term lovers, where mutual trust and respect have been firmly established. However, I am not a kink provider and will be highly unlikely to respond to booking requests of this nature. There are some incredibly talented kink specialists in London who I greatly admire, especially those affiliated with the KLE Collective. When it comes to our time together I like to think of myself as the free-spirited naughty girlfriend you've always dreamt of. Think deep, passionate kissing, mutual pleasure giving and receiving and plenty of playful tumbling around in bed. While I prefer not to give an entire rundown of all the mischief we might get up to, please know that as long as you are respectful I can guarantee we will have fun.
  • Do You Offer Duos or Couple Dates?
    A heartfelt and emphatic YES. Whoever said that three's a crowd, clearly wasn't running in the right social circles. I am bisexual (both in this and my personal life) and think that women are simply divine. Duos & Moresomes I am very fortunate to know some stunning fellow companions in London, who I would be delighted to ask to join us. Or, if you have a companion you adore who isn't on my Friends page and whom you think I might fall head over heels for, too, please do make some introductions. I play very well with others. In the name of fairness and equality, please ensure you match the highest quoted rate for all involved. Couples I would be absolutely delighted to join you and your partner for a romantic evening. What a thrilling way to play together in your relationship. Please note that both partners will have to go through my screening process, which includes a phone call with your wife/girlfriend/partner to ensure she is fully onboard with our dalliance. Time with couples incurs an additional £300 total to my fee.
  • Are You Willing To Travel Further Afield To Visit Me?
    I absolutely love ‘fly me to you’ dates and am more than happy to discuss this with you. Travelling is truly my raison d'être, made all the better for sharing with a fellow adventure-seeker. I am available for UK countryside jaunts, European city breaks and worldwide escapades. Let's go exploring... Head to my Travel page to find out more. Please note that all travel expenses must be covered and must be paid alongside my usual deposit once everything is confirmed. Travel expenses may include taxi fares to/from airports, flight/train tickets, food/drink costs while in transit, any necessary visas and vaccinations, and a small charge for time to travel. Minimum FMTY Date Lengths: Europe (under a 3-hour flight from London) - 6-hour dinner date Europe (over a 3-hour flight from London) - 8-hour day date Far Away (flights under 6 hours) - Overnight Far Far Away (flights under 10 hours) - 24 hours Far Far Far Away (flights over 10 hours) - 48 hours Airport Visits: I am more than happy to visit you at your hotel in London Heathrow or London Gatwick for a minimum date length of two hours. Airport dates will incur an additional £350 fee to cover travel expenses and time. Outside London: I love 'train-me-to-you' dates, and am very happy to visit other UK cities for at least a four-hour dinner date. As with FMTY dates, travel expenses will need to be covered, as will the cost of a hotel for the night if our timings mean I cannot travel back on the same day. If you book an overnight or longer, we can make use of that hotel room together...
  • I'm Having A Sex Emergency, Are You Available Right Now?!
    It is extremely unlikely that you will be able to catch me with less than at least 24 hours notice. In the very rare event that I can accommodate a same-day booking, a £200 rush fee will be added to my rate.
  • How Should I Pay The Remaining Balance of Your Fee?
    I am happy to accept cash or bank transfer for the remaining balance of my fee. If paying in cash, please ensure you hand this to me within the first 10 minutes of my arrival. An envelope isn't necessary, though it does make for a more elegant presentation. If you prefer not to hand my fee to me directly, please ensure the envelope is clearly labelled and in plain sight so I can scoop it up. I will always do a quick recount in front of you to make sure we are both happy. If we meet at the bar or restaurant, please enclose my fee in an envelope, card, or small gift bag. I will excuse myself to the bathroom within the first 15 minutes to do my recount, just in case. If paying via bank transfer, please ensure this is sent before our date. Transfers mostly come through quickly, but international transfers can take a few days, and even local transfers can sometimes get held up. I would hate for us to be sat staring at our phones, waiting for our banks to sort themselves out, rather than having fun!
  • I Didn't Realise How Much Fun We Would Have Together, Can We Extend Our Time?
    In-date extensions are possible at my discretion and subject to my availability and dog-sitting arrangements. After all, my dog is priority number one! If you would like to extend our time together, please just ask, and I'll see what I can do. Extensions are charged on an hourly basis.
  • I'm Concerned About Privacy, Can We Stay In The Room?
    Dates up to two hours can be spent completely in private. Three or four-hour dates can be entirely spent in the room; private-time-only rates will apply. Refreshments and snacks/meals will still need to be provided - room service in bed, anyone? Longer dates will absolutely require social time outside the room. No one wants cabin fever.
  • I Heard You Like To Eat...
    I most definitely do! Offering snacks and refreshments on shorter dates is always very much appreciated. Besides, it's always fun to at least share a glass or two of champagne together. Unsurprisingly, my dinner dates do mean a meal must be included. Crazy, I know. And dates of 8 hours or longer must include appropriate meals and snacks. I am much more fun to be around when I am well-fed. I am an avid foodie with an extensive little black book of London (and further afield!) bars and restaurants. If you need help picking somewhere, I would be delighted to make recommendations.
  • I Heard You Might Need Some Sleep On Overnight & Longer Dates?
    Oh yeah. You heard right. Contrary to what my pale skin might suggest, I am not actually a creature of the night (great news for those not into vampires) and I do need to get some sleep on overnight or longer dates. To help me remain my usual, happy, bubbly self, please allow me 7 hours of uninterrupted beauty sleep on all overnight dates. Let's make sure we can still be friends in the morning! I do not require my own room on overnight dates, but if you know that you suffer from snoring, sleep apnea, or other sleep disorders/behaviour that might be disruptive when sharing a bed, please do consider this. I can offer a favourable rate for sleepovers with my own room provided.
  • What Screening Do You Require?
    Screening is mandatory for all dates. All information collected is held securely and is used solely for my safety precautions. For dates in the UK, I will require your authentic phone number (no number apps!) and one of the following: Photo ID: Please include a copy of your passport or driver's license. This should clearly show your face, full name and date of birth. Please feel free to redact address information if you prefer. Sending a selfie with you holding your ID is not required, though it is a thoughtful and reassuring addition to your date proposal. Employment Verification: A link to your clearly active LinkedIn Profile or your business bio page. These should include your photo and full name. While not required, sending me a blank email from your work email address does help further validate this screening method. If you prefer, I have an alternative, non-descript Outlook email address for this. Please enquire. Companion Reference: I am open to taking references from another active and reputable professional companion you have met in the last six months. I will need her full working name, website, email address, and social media information. Please ask for her permission first (and consider tipping her for her time!), as this is additional admin work for her. Only one reference is required, though sending two often makes this process easier and faster. Please remember that waiting on references generally makes screening take a little longer. Unfortunately, I cannot accept P411 reviews as references, as I need to speak to the companion directly. Nor can I accept references from retired providers, as they are often no longer available to contact. For FMTY dates, I will require your phone number, a copy of your photo ID, and one other of the above screening options.
  • Do You Take A Deposit?
    Yes, I take a deposit for all dates. Whether it's our first meeting or our fiftieth, a deposit is a must to secure our date in my diary. This ensures I block out that time just for us and covers any pre-date expenses, especially as I have to travel into London on the train to meet you. Once a deposit is made, it's non-refundable. This policy is in place to ensure fairness and protect both parties' interests. Please refer to my cancellation policy for more details. Short And Sweet up to Sleepovers: 30% deposit Adventures (24-hours upwards & all travel dates): 50% deposit I have multiple methods for receiving deposits, including a discreet business bank account, Wise, Stripe, Crypto* and select gift cards**. I will always confirm the deposit's safe receipt. The remaining balance is due in cash when we meet. Please let me know if you would prefer to pay the remaining balance via bank transfer, Wise, or Stripe. *Crypto: I can accept BTC or ETH. Due to crypto's volatile nature and the high fees associated with wallets, I kindly ask for a 10% transaction fee on top of all crypto payments. **Gift Cards: I accept a few select gift cards (usually John Lewis or Selfridges). Please ask which ones I am currently taking. If you wish to send a gift card from an alternative retailer, I can accept this as a show of good faith; however, the total amount of my fee will be payable when we meet.
  • What Is Your Cancellation Policy?
    I understand that sometimes life throws unexpected things our way, meaning that, unfortunately, you may not be able to make our arranged date. For dates up to and including 12 hours: If you need to cancel, please provide more than 48 hours notice. This allows me to hold onto your deposit to reschedule the booking within three months of the original date. Please note that this applies to one date change only. Further date changes will be seen as cancellations, and a new deposit will be required. For longer dates, travel and FMTY: If you need to cancel, please provide more than 72 hours notice. This allows me to hold onto your deposit to reschedule the booking within three months of the original date. Any associated costs for changing travel tickets will need to be covered, and any expenses already incurred will need to be reimbursed. Please note that this applies to one date change only. Further date changes will be seen as cancellations, and a new deposit will be required. Late Cancellation If you need to cancel after the cancellation notice periods described above, your deposit will be forfeited, and I will require a cancellation fee of 50% of the remaining balance. If you need to cancel with less than 24 hours' notice your deposit will be forfeited, and I will require a cancellation fee of 100% of the remaining balance. If the cancellation fee is unpaid, I am afraid I cannot schedule alternative dates with you. If you wish to reschedule, you must make a new deposit. Any ticket change costs or charges will need to be covered in the case of travel or FMTY dates. If I Cancel: In the very unlikely event that I have to cancel our booking, I will contact you immediately with a few alternative dates. If none of these work, I will promptly return the deposit to you. To make this as smooth a process as possible, please make sure you give me all the necessary details of your preferred payment method. If I feel I need to cancel due to you displaying rude, inappropriate or unsafe behaviour, any money paid towards the booking will not be refunded.
  • What is Rate Matching?
    In the name of fairness, all dates that involve other companions should be rate-matched. Please ensure that all companions you see in the same booking are paid the highest quoted rate. This is the industry standard. If another companion is joining us for play during a part of a longer booking and has quoted a higher hourly rate than my own, I kindly request a pro-rata fee during that shared time.
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